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Riding with the Dead ©️

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It was sometime around supper, the Alabama sun finally bleeding out over the pines, painting the road in that syrupy, honeyed kind of light that makes you forget just how mean the world can be. We were riding in that beat-up side-by-side behind the cotton fields, wheels kicking up dust like red ghosts in the rearview.

She sat up front with her husband, her hair pinned neat like Sunday morning, even if it was only Friday. He was a Yankee—God help him—all tight shoulders and Indiana jaw, gripping the wheel like it might betray him. He didn’t fit in the seat or the silence. Didn’t know how to let the heat speak. His shirt was too clean, his mouth too closed, and Lord, did he drive like a man waiting to be punished.

She didn’t say much. Just looked out toward the tree line, where the light makes things look farther away than they are. She wasn’t angry. No, it was something quieter than that. Like maybe she’d made peace with something awful, or maybe she’d just grown too tired to pick the fight.

Their boy was in the middle, covered in dust and grinning like a possum. Laughing, wild, free. He didn’t know about inheritance yet. Didn’t know blood could bend time. He just liked the speed and the wind and being between them.

I sat in the back, out of the way, watching like I always do. I wasn’t there for the ride. I was there for the reveal.

And sure enough, it came.

I blinked. Just once. Nothing dramatic.

And when I opened my eyes, it wasn’t her and that Yankee at all. It was my paternal grandparents. My grandfather with his thundercloud eyes and rough hands, and my grandmother, stiff and sugar-laced, the kind of woman who could apologize and wound you in the same breath. They were sitting there, plain as day, but wearing different skin.

It was the way he held the wheel—like he wanted to win at driving. And the way she turned her head slightly away, not out of fear but survival. I saw it all—the old fights, the unsaid things, the long silences filled with obligation. I saw the dirt that never left the bloodline.

And that Yankee—poor fool—he didn’t even know he was wearing a ghost.

Because that’s the trick in the South: we don’t pass down heirlooms. We pass down wounds. And they ride with us, talk through us, love through us. Even when the voice has a northern accent and no idea what it’s inherited.

I sat there, just breathing, just listening to the wheels grind over the land my people never left. And I thought—Lord, she married a Yankee. But the curse? The curse stayed Southern.

Bootsteps and Lullabies ©️

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He big. He got boots that make loud sounds and he say my name like a song but also like a truck. He smell like outside and hot sauce and hugs. I don’t know all the words he say, but I like the way he say ‘em. He say, “You got a strong back, boy. Gonna be tough like your daddy, maybe tougher.” I don’t know what that mean, but I laugh and he laugh too, and then we go outside and I hold a stick like him. He talks like a cowboy but not the scary kind. He talks like he knows the sky and the dirt and why dogs bark.

He call me “little man” and tell me “you ain’t gotta cry for nothin’ that don’t bleed.” Mama say “Don’t tell him that!” but I think it sound brave. He pick me up high and I see everything—trees, sun, his truck. He let me sit on his lap when he drive slow down the field, and he say, “Don’t tell your mama,” but I do anyway and she say “Lord help me.” I like when he come ‘cause he makes the house full. Full of words and stories and smiles that feel like firecrackers inside me.

Sometimes I don’t know what he means but it don’t matter ‘cause I know he loves me big. Bigger than his voice. Bigger than his truck. Maybe bigger than the whole world.

I Miss Billy the Kid ©️

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At first, it was instinct—a shared glance in a quiet moment, a thought that seemed to leap from me to him. My brother and I didn’t speak of it, but we knew something had changed. Over time, I refined it, shaping the process into a teachable method. I showed him how to still the noise of his conscious mind, how to focus not on the words but the pulse of thought itself. We started small: a single image, a feeling, a memory. With practice, the connection deepened, and soon, silence was enough to share entire worlds.

This wasn’t just communication—it was truth. Stripped of words, unfiltered by the limits of language, what we shared was raw and pure. We understood each other in ways that no spoken conversation ever could. But this bond brought challenges: how much of myself was mine when my mind was an open book? Could we respect each other’s privacy in a space without walls?

I began to wonder if this ability was ours alone. Were we unique, or had we merely unlocked something buried in everyone—a forgotten potential? The more we practiced, the more it felt universal, as if the boundary between minds was an illusion, and we had simply chosen to see past it.

The idea took root: this wasn’t a gift to hoard but a truth to share. If we could teach others, the world might change—not with words, but with the silent power of connection.